In Love? Ladies This Is For You
Have you ever known a woman who would ditch her friends for a man? For example: On Monday, she would make plans to go with you to an exhibit and by Friday, the plans were altered because the new guy she met on an internet dating site just happened to call. Being the friend that you are, you always seem to understand and say that it is no big deal.
But deep down, you're resentful and you're starting to feel neglected. Well guess what? Men don't break their plans with other men to spend an evening with you. Think about that before doing cancelling your night out with the girls to spend it with a guy. In all honesty, if he cares about you at all, he'd tell you to go out and enjoy yourself and make a suggestions for another time.
"First come, First served" is a popular business policy. So why aren't relationships like that too? Being with friends occasionally is not going to tear a strong relationship apart. Actually it will make it stronger because it shows all concerned that you have a life of your own too. Don't forget, you've likely known your friends a lot longer than you've know your sweetie.
While you're reading this you're probably saying to yourself that a woman should never let a her friends come between her and her man. Well the flip side of that is true as well; a woman should never let her man come between her and her friends. It's too bad that we all know someone who's done that, and we may even be looking at her in the mirror. And when the friends are dropped, all that extra time is spent with the new guy.
Phone calls become scarce as her new relationship consumes all her time. Perhaps the woman in question simply feels that this man is all she needs. Along with her friends, her work and other aspects of her personal may suffer as well. While you might think that you'd never let this happen to you, most women don't do this conscientiously, it just sort of sneaks up on them.
Remember, love should you complement you; make you a better person. It shouldn't leave you brain dead and possibly friendless and jobless. Think of this; the people that you're ignoring now in favor of your guy will be the same people that you will run to when the relationship sinks.
Though your friends may not say it to your face, they likely want to but didn't for fear of ruining what is left of your friendship. Your most caring friends will keep their mouth shut and give you a much needed hug while you pour out your sob story. Which, incidentally, was entirely of your own making.
If your guy doesn't understand that you have a life outside of him, which includes your friends, then you simply don't need him in your life. A women needn't lose her identity to fall in love and become part of a couple.
This post was developed by the staff of the Datepad.com internet dating company where you can find thousands more professional dating posts.
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